As a Geriatric Care Manager, I really don’t get many questions about what gift families should get their older loved one, or their family member who has a disability. Perhaps because their needs are part of the ongoing conversation we carry on throughout the year. But if you find yourself a little stuck about what to get, here is a list of ideas:
Gifts to Improve Cognitive Function:
Crossword Puzzle Books (word search, Sudoku)
Hand-held video games such as Solitaire, Bingo
Board games like Tri-ominos, Scrabble, jigsaw puzzles with large pieces, or games such as Life Stories or Reminisce.
Books on Tape or MP3 players
Gifts for Safety:
Medication compartment boxes, boxes with reminder alarms, alarm watches.
Driver’s Safety Classes: Many automobile insurance companies have programs—check with agent
Installing door alarms for wanderers.
Alzheimer’s Association’s Safe Return Program
Personal Emergency Response Systems
Motion activated lights for path to bathroom
An electric tea kettle with automatic shut-off
Cell phone & air time
Gifts for Comfort and Sensory Stimulation (Moderate to severe
cognitive impairment):
Fidget and ‘busy box’ toys
Pillows and throws in unusual textures, stuffed animals, and small sculptures
A new bathrobe
Something to cuddle that supports aching backs or something uniquely entertaining like a singing stuffed animal.
Potpourri, flameless scented candles/tart warmers and scented bath items–lavender scent is calming for “sundowning”—spray on pillowcase at bedtime or tuck a sachet in nightgown drawer or between linens.
Music box, wind chimes, portable radio or TV, audiotapes, or an audio-clock
Shatter resistant magnifying glass
Creative ceiling decorations for someone living in a small space such as kites, posters, or mobiles.
Neck pillow to use when sitting in wheelchair or geri-chair
Microwaveable heating pads
Wheelchair Accessories – backpacks, oxygen carriers, rim covers, brake extensions, trays and seat cushions.
Inexpensive amplifier headset (size of a small cassette player) for those who can’t or won’t use a hearing aid.
Telephone designed for hearing enhancement
Gifts from the Heart — Gifts of Time:
Scrapbook
Creating a family memory video
Writing a memoir/personal history
Weeding the garden; planting flowers
Membership to local science center, zoo, museum (and you taking them!)
Trips to the local library
Enrolling the person in the Library of Congress’ Recorded Books Program for those with impaired vision or fine-motor coordination/strength www.loc.gov/nls or downloading MP3 audiobooks to inexpensive MP3 player through local library: www.netlibrary.com/RecordedBooks. Some libraries carry audiobooks pre-loaded onto MP3 players.
Compile family recipes into a book.
Pre-address & stamp family birthday/anniversary cards with the date to mail it written on the envelope flap.
Personalized Calendars with family photos and birthdates, other special anniversaries
An IOU for a year’s worth of lawn care or 52 car washes from a teenager.
Personalized gifts, such as a deck of cards or jigsaw puzzles using their photo or a favorite grandchild or pet
Large poster or photo of them with a grandchild
Bird feeder (plus the IOU to keep it filled) to add some interest to their window. Include a book on bird watching.
Gifts for the active Senior who has everything:
Frozen steaks, salmon, gourmet dinners
Gourmet tea and coffee
Fruit of the month
Magazine subscription
Plants or cut flowers, such as Christmas cactus, Ficus, Norfolk pine, Corsage
Gift certificates for:
Tickets to the movies, theater, zoo, museum or restaurant
Stores or shopping malls
Favorite hair salon
Massage, manicure, facial, salon/spa
Housecleaning
What would you add to this list?